OOGILING OVER HARD BODIES!
I don’t know why I decided to write this. Maybe cuz it’s something that has been bugging of for a long time.
Don’t get me wrong I do my fair share of oogiling too, but most of the time when someone’s oogiling it’s all about SEX. And if that’s all you’re into I feel really sorry for you. This is what the world seems to be about now days, and is exactly why I didn’t want to be single again. LOL
A far as I’m concerned if you can find that person that you bond with EMOTIONALLY and PSYCHOLOGICALLY…SEX is just icing on the cake. What I mean is you find that person that you can just sit with and not say a word, or you snuggle with to watch a movie, or turn the TV off and just TALK about anything and everything. THAT would be AWESOME!
Is this asking too much? Is this proof that my head is in the clouds? (Others may say it is somewhere else..and to those I’m “one of THOSE PEOPLE that believe in no sex before marriage” LOL)
Cuz later in life that HARD BODY isn’t gonna be so HOT around 70 or 80..LOL 
But this is just my opinion..and you know what they say about opinions.. 
Peace Out!
5 comments:
what is the source of your frustration then? is it that a lot of guys are ogling you? or that they’re not?
i agree with you, and think that the world is morally messed up these days. but all of this sexuality in the world is probably just a product of our evolutionary development, which could mean that genetics beats out morals. the institution of marriage has helped to stifle genetic diversity.
i’m rambling on something impersonal rather than emotional. i dig what you wrote, but to really agree or disagree with you, you have to clarify a little bit.
LOL. I get my fair share of being oogled at. LOL
My frustration has nothing to with that. I guess it just came down to morals
And that now days the world seems to be all about sex not relationships that last and have a foundation based on being connected in other ways than just sex.
Does that help?
I have a family member who was married this weekend to her college sweetheart. They would not move in with each other or consummate their relationship until they were married. You are not alone.
i think that a large part of the “problem” (some would not define it as such) is that we’re living a lot longer nowadays. as a result, we’re taking a lot longer to grow up. i myself don’t feel like i’m anywhere close to being a true adult, and i’m 24.
perhaps the world is changing. maybe up until age 40, we’re just supposed to be concerned with physical fulfillment and then start to be concerned with the deeper stuff. i don’t pretend to know; i feel like somewhat of an anachronism because my parents are 40 years older than me, so they raised me with old-fashioned values. by and large, girls my own age are too shallow for me . . . but i’m too young for older women. so i run
TJE210…”So I run!” I love it, and I agree. These days people from our culture and in my age group (33 for me) are way consumed with sex. Not until just recently, I too was one of those sorry souls who would give up the world for a romp in the sheets with some hot body chica. I have made my own decisions now to not put myself in certain situations i.e. going to bars, going to a fitness club, etc. We all have choices, thats the beauty of life and life in America it cn be that much easier to make whatever choice we feel led to make, but all in all, then I will stop rambling, the choice to be “selfless” will most certainly turn the need to fulfill ourselves in a 180 degree swoop. But I agree with tje210…so I choose to swim, bike and run!!
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